Tuesday, December 7, 2021

Do not change yourself for others.

Do not change yourself for others.

There is a long army of people around us, who keep advising us without asking. They are trying to change us with their advice. Overall, they gather to make us, just like everyone else. As a result, we are not comfortable with ourselves.

In life, we meet many people who tell us that we should make some changes in ourselves. Most people have this kind of suggestion or interference. Because of this we become defensive towards ourselves and start behaving as if we are doing something wrong and we need to improve our attitude or manner.

It would not be right to say here that there is absolutely no presence of truth in the views or suggestions of others. However, it is also important to know how it feels when others do their analysis.

Stand out from the crowd

Think for a moment that we behave differently about life, our beginnings are different and our experiences of life are also different.

Advising is going on

Advising people for change is becoming a trend nowadays. Exposing emotions may put you on a whim, a temper of anger on being angrier, a clown, or a tickle on being more cheerful. And the sad person in the case.

What does it mean to change for others?

Our habit is that we react by seeing encouragement. Cultural acceptance is the mantra by which we make our decisions. In the year 2011, there was research that how people act in society change their behavior. In other words, people are more worried about what people think about them. People who are depressed know better about themselves than those who are not depressed.

Most different gift

Changing yourself is not possible overnight, neither is it possible with new hairstyles nor by weight loss or looking cool. Of course, these things can make us feel good, but our habits and lifestyle will remain the same and will emerge from time to time until we can completely overcome them.

God's gift is our uniqueness

Others accept us while trying in this direction, many times we do not understand that by doing this we are coming under stress or feel relieved?

However, this does not mean that you should not make any effort for your betterment. The way we are unique is in a way a gift given to us by God. Save it too.
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